What is friendship you might ask? According to Wikipedia, friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings. It focuses on the notion specific to interpersonal relationships. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
=the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
=sympathy and empathy,
=honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
=mutual understanding.
So, this is what friendship means right? Hmm. What would you do if your best friend betrayed you? stab you at your back? even hate you at your back? If the situation ever happens on me, I will go and ask her what's her problem and try to solve it out. But everytime I failed to do so. Here's some picture:
So well, even though we can't differentiate between true friends and fake friends, but we can treasure them while we can right? We shouldn't regret when we lose them, treasure them before we get the chance to lose them, you get me? There are quarrels between friends I agree, but it's just temporary right? After that, we will act like nothing happened and just talk like normal right? That's whattrue friends will do. Fake friends will dump you after a fight. Gahh. I hate that. Bet you too huh? Hmph. No one likes that =\ I bet.
Well, this post is dedicated to KAYTRIEESE TEE JENN LING. Since she's facing friendship problems. Good luck horh. Don't be sad le la. Heart you =] Muacks~`
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